Don't React Cut Off Them Silently Once You Learn These Life Lessons, You Will Never Be The Same
No one is too busy; it's only a matter of priorities. If it keeps you happy, keep it quiet. Be careful who you trust; salt and sugar look the same. Don't depend too much on anyone because even your own shadow leaves you in darkness. Remember, some of the best times of your life haven't happened yet.
Bad habits are like a comfortable bed: easy to get into but hard to get out of. Time always exposes what you truly mean to someone. Stay calm; you've been through this before and I'll get through it again. Learn to heal without venting to everyone. You're being judged no matter what, so be who you want to be.
Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven't planted. If you don't let go of the wrong people, you'll never meet the right ones. If you don't control your mind, someone else will. If you are not falling down occasionally, you are just coasting. First, it hurts, then it makes you stronger. Work at your job to make a living; work on yourself to make a fortune.
There will always be someone who doesn't see your worth; don't let it be you. Do what no one else can do, and you will become what no one else can become. Remember, five years ago, you dreamed about being where you are now. If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice. Value experience over possessions because memories are the real treasures of life.
So many people love you; don't focus on those who don't. Playing it safe is the most dangerous thing you can do in life. Never be embarrassed to struggle; there is no shame in working hard to get where you want to be. Rowing harder doesn't help if the boat is headed in the wrong direction. Your vision will be blurry, but it will clear with time.
Take care of your body; remember, health is another form of wealth. You don't get paid for the hour; you get paid for the value you bring to the hour. Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that you have no time to criticize others. Guard your thoughts when alone and your words when accompanied. Your strongest muscle and worst enemy is your mind; train it well.
Don't react; cut them off silently. The fact that you aren't where you want to be should be enough motivation. Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most. Stop telling people everything; most don't care, and some secretly want you to fail. By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail. Talking without thinking is like shooting without aiming.
Do not go where the path may lead; go where there is no path and leave a trail. It's a slow process, but quitting won't speed it up. What comes easy won't last; what lasts won't come easy. Don't ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday; let it go. Someone else's progress doesn't make yours any less. A small circle, a private life, and a peaceful mind are essential.
Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through expectation. Just let it be; if it's meant to be, it will happen. Just be real; it saves everyone's time. Don't share your personal life with anyone who could harm you. Embrace solitude as a time for reflection and self-discovery. Don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you want. You'll grow mentally weak when your life is too comfortable.
Sharing your accomplishments is essential, but avoid oversharing every minor success. Life's most significant achievements often emerge from adversity. Mistakes are stepping stones, not stumbling blocks; learn from them and move forward. The moment you let go of your discipline is the moment you give up on yourself. Done is better than perfect.
Your worst enemy might be someone you trust the most; beware of wolves in sheep's clothing. Self-care is not selfish; it's essential for a balanced and fulfilling life. The value of time becomes evident when it's gone; use it wisely. Success happens after you've survived all your mistakes. Winners focus on winning; losers focus on winners. Before something great happens, everything falls apart. One day you'll see why God made you wait.
For your peace of mind, don't let people know too much about you. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything. If someone tells you you can't, they're showing you their limits, not yours. If you live for people's acceptance, you'll die from their rejection. There are two types of pain: one that hurts you and one that changes you. Be selfish with your time; many people don't deserve it. Silence is the best answer to someone who doesn't value your words.
Fear is temporary; regret is forever. Excuses make today easier but tomorrow harder; discipline makes today hard but tomorrow easier. Don't give up; you are closer than you think. Sometimes being alone is the best medicine for your soul. Your future needs you; your past doesn't. Don't get burned twice by the same flame. Worrying about losing is losing before you begin.
We fall, we break, we fail, but then we rise, we heal, we overcome. Sacrifice a few years of comfort for decades of freedom. Have patience; all things are difficult before they become easy. Hardship often prepares an ordinary person for an extraordinary destiny. Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will. The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing. Don't let yesterday take up too much of today. If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit.
The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. Your past is a place to learn and grow, not a place to live. Don't rush the process; trust it. Great things take time.
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There are a lot of what you say I can see myself. 4,6,9,14. Four was especially true. I worked for a company for almost 15 years and was told from the start that my pay was based on my performance. I was moved to different positions because of what I could do and the fact that when I left a department it was running better than when I got there. I also made a trip to Kansas City for a month to help teach so people the process that the company was wanting them to use. I was making decent money, but I was older, and kids were out of the house, and I learned about three years after I retired that I was one of the lowest paid people in the office. Other employees would go in and talk to VP about a raise and a lot of the times they would get it. I wasn't even given a cake when I left.